attitude of gratitude

Philippians 2:1-5

As you know, we are continuing today in our ongoing study of Philippians.  And it’s rare that our scripture text coincides or fits with the theme of a holiday.  It just so happens that today it does, to a certain degree.  So in keeping with the Thanksgiving spirit, I have titled my message today, “having an attitude of gratitude.”

But more important than trying to preach a topical message about turkeys or pilgrims or giving thanks, I want to show today what the Bible says about the kind of attitude that marks a Christian response to salvation.  As I’ve said before recently, salvation is a two part message.  Unfortunately, we all want to stop at the first half.  The first half is the grace of God that leads to salvation, and then the second part is the response of the believer in sanctification.  The first half is learning that Christ became our sacrifice, and the second part is learning that we also are to become a living sacrifice to God.

So chapter 2 starts off with this word therefore, which we always prompts the question, what is it there for?  It references something that was said earlier.  And to answer that question we just need to look back at vs. 27 of the preceding chapter which says: “Only conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or remain absent, I will hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel; in no way alarmed by your opponents—which is a sign of destruction for them, but of salvation for you, and that too, from God. For to you it has been granted for Christ's sake, not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for His sake, experiencing the same conflict which you saw in me, and now hear to be in me.”

Now, I read you the whole preceding paragraph so that you could pick up on the word imagery that Paul is using.  His theme is unity, but with a particular emphasis.  The emphasis can be related for instance to an army on the field of battle.  He uses words like striving, and conflict, opponents, destruction to metaphorically give us a picture of a battle.  He’s talking about a unity that comes from a group of soldiers as they form a unit, bonded against their common enemy, and unified in their purpose.  He says, “Be of one mind.”  You’re in a conflict. Fight together in one spirit, one mind.

And then, starting in chapter 2, (and we have to remember that chapter designations are not in the original manuscripts, so there is not necessarily any break in this message, but rather a continuation) we have this exhortation in vs. 1-4 that not only in the battle, but also in the camp, or the fort, in the church, we are to have this unity among ourselves as well.  

What Paul is talking about is not outward unity, but inward unity in the church. There is a desire today for ecumenicalism at all costs.  But the Bible never teaches that.  The Bible says clearly in 2Cor. 6:14 “Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness? Or what harmony has Christ with Belial, or what has a believer in common with an unbeliever? Or what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; just as God said, "I WILL DWELL IN THEM AND WALK AMONG THEM; AND I WILL BE THEIR GOD, AND THEY SHALL BE MY PEOPLE.  "Therefore, COME OUT FROM THEIR MIDST AND BE SEPARATE," says the Lord. "AND DO NOT TOUCH WHAT IS UNCLEAN; And I will welcome you.  And I will be a father to you, And you shall be sons and daughters to Me," Says the Lord Almighty.”

God never tells us to abandon doctrinal purity for the sake of ecumenical unity. 1Tim.  4:1 says that “the Spirit explicitly says that in later times some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to deceitful spirits and doctrines of demons, by means of the hypocrisy of liars seared in their own conscience as with a branding iron.”  This is talking about false doctrine in the church.  They have strayed from the faith, they have strayed from the truth of God’s word, and they are adhering to doctrines that are spawned by demons, not by God, meant to deceive and destroy the flock.  So Jesus said I’m sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves, and told us to be wise as serpents, yet as harmless as doves.   In other words, we don’t want to have unity with false doctrine, we want to stay away from people or churches or teachers that are adhering to false doctrine.

So if ecumenical unity is not what Paul is talking about, then what is he talking about?  Well, as I said earlier, he is talking about unity with one another in a local fellowship.  We strive together with the same purpose on the battlefield, and in the home camp, so to speak, or the church, we also need to be unified.  Now what does that mean?

He’s not talking about people that are externally connected by denominational membership, but internally connected.  If you put a bunch of marbles in the same bag, then you may have a certain unity.  But that which binds them together is the container.  It’s something external that holds them.   If the bag is torn open, the marbles are scattered because there is nothing intrinsic to hold them together.

But if you take a bunch of steel nails and put them in a bag, and you also put in a large magnet, if the bag is torn all the nails stay together.  Because they have an inward pull towards the magnet that is stronger than the forces of gravity.

 And that's how the church is to be, it is not a collection of marbles in the same bag, it is people who are drawn together because they're all magnetized by the same force, which is the power of Jesus Christ. That's the internal unity of the church. We are pulled to each other because we are drawn to each other by the power within us, which is Christ.

In 1 Corinthians 12 the church is illustrated as a body.  And it says there are different parts to the body, each of them having different purposes.  But all the parts are under the control of the head, which is Christ.  In fact, they have no purpose, no life at all, without being attached to the rest of the body.  A hand cannot live by itself and it has no purpose or function by itself. It depends upon the rest of the body for life and for control and for purpose.

So individually as members of a local body, the church, a fellowship of believers, we are to function in conjunction with the rest of the body under the headship, the Lordship of Jesus Christ.  This is why we were made a new creation.  This is the purpose of the church.  This is the sanctification part, the second part of our salvation.  And Paul is saying that this unity is essential for our well being, for our survival, and for our effectiveness as a body of believers in the ministry of the gospel. The church has to have this unity to be effective for Christ.

Now the opposite of unity would be everyone going their own way.  Everyone doing their own thing.  Disunity is marked by a selfish pursuit of self gratification.  An army is routed when one soldier says, “I’ve had enough of this, I’m going to save myself,” and deserts his post, and runs away from his duty.  He may be afraid of the sacrifice that he is called upon to make, and he says, “Forget this, I’m going to take care of myself.  I’m going to look after my own interests.”  And that attitude can and does become contagious.  You see people on one side and then the other abandoning their post, abandoning their commitments, and you’re more inclined to throw in the towel as well.  And before you know it, the whole group, the whole church is in a rout.  Soon everyone is off doing their own thing.

Folks, we weren’t saved for that.  We weren’t saved to be given a get out of jail card and then we can go do our own thing whenever we want, or whenever the conflict starts to be a drain on us, or whenever we feel like we aren’t getting everything out of life that we think we deserve or need.  We are called to participate in the conflict. 1Cor. 6:19 “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.”

 And then Paul follows the word “therefore” with a series of phrases starting with the word “if”.  Most good commentators and Greek scholars agree that the word “if” would be better interpreted as since or because.  The word was correctly interpreted “if”, but the way it was used in the original Greek did not imply some sort of ambivalence, but rather a certainty that something was so.  And in our English language, we unfortunately only have one way of presenting “if”, and that is to present a questionable alternative.  That is not what Paul means here.  What he is saying is “since” or “because”.

So it’s as if Paul presents a four point summary of our position in vs. 1 and then in vs. 2, he presents the conclusion to each point.  Therefore since there is any encouragement in Christ, since there is any consolation of love, since there is any fellowship of the Spirit, since any affection and compassion… And then in verse 2 the response, point by point, “make my joy complete”, and here are the responses, “by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose.”

Now here is what Paul is saying in these two verses.  He is saying that in order for us to have unity with each other, we first of all have to have unity with Jesus Christ.  A good example of unity is a godly marriage. The verse I quoted while ago in 2 Cor. 6:14 about being bound together with unbelievers can also be a good verse for people who are contemplating marriage.  And the Bible tells us there and other places  that we should not be bound with an unbeliever in marriage.  The reason is, is that for a believer, the Lord of all their actions, the controlling guide of their lives, is in the headship of Jesus Christ.  And you can’t be joined to two heads.  When you are married you become one flesh.  When I counsel people about marriage, I always say that your loyalty and allegiance has to be first and foremost to God.  And if each person in the relationship is living for God first, then the relationship between each other will be in agreement.  But if one person is living for themselves, and the other is trying to live for God, then there won’t be unity, there will be disharmony. And in the church, if we are right with God first and foremost, then our gratitude for what He has done for us should result in an attitude of love for one another, resulting in a sincere desire to serve one another in humility as unto the Lord.

And that is what Paul is saying here.  As individual members of the body of Christ, we must all first of all be in conformity to Christ.  We must have the right relationship with Christ.  Look at Vs. 1. You’re a believer?  Then since you  have encouragement in Christ.  Encouragement by the way is from the Greek word “paraklēsis.”  It means to come alongside of someone to help them.  Jesus Christ has come alongside us to help us.  Before Christ we were helpless in our sinful state, with no way to reach God or appease Him.  So Christ became our Paraklete.  Our helper.  To make it possible by His substitutionary death to be reconciled to God.

And notice what Paul says our response is to be to that encouragement in verse 2.  We are to be of the same mind with one another in the church as Christ is to us.  What this means is best understood in reference to Christ being our encouragement.  Christ has become out helper, coming alongside us, so much so that He has planted His Spirit in us, to be our Helper. John 16:7 "But I tell you the truth, it is to your advantage that I go away; for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you; but if I go, I will send Him to you.” John 14:26 "But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.”  So where is the Helper working? In our minds, teaching us, encouraging us, strengthening us.  And Paul says in vs. 2 that in the church, we are to be of the same mind, to come alongside others in the church, being their paraklete, their helper, strengthening them, encouraging them, teaching them.

Secondly, since you are a believer, then you will have vs. 1, the “consolation of love.”  We know the height, the depth, the extent of God’s love to us that never fails, is always faithful.  So then our response to that love is in verse 2; in the church our response is maintaining the same love.  The same love that Christ had for us, the love that brought us to Christ, that love we can depend on no matter what the circumstances or how far we fell  or how bad we stumble, we are to maintain that same love for each other in the church.  As Christ loved the church so much that He laid down His life for her, then so should we respond in gratitude by laying down our lives for the church.  No one is going to ask you to commit hari kari on the altar.  But Romans 12: 1 does say that we are to become living sacrifices, offering to God lives to Him that are holy and acceptable, our reasonable service.  We should be thinking of others more highly than we think of ourselves.  You may be free to go here or there or go on vacation or go fishing or go surfing or whatever, but you ought to be thinking first of your brothers and sisters who are in the trenches and your love for them should cause you to override your selfish considerations, for the sake of putting others first.  (Illustration of Uriah, one of David’s mighty 30)

Third, since you’re a believer, you experience the fellowship of the Spirit.  Vs. 1 Fellowship is from the Greek word “koininea”.  It can also mean communion.  It means sharing.  The Holy Spirit, the Bible says communes with us, praying for us to the Father with groanings too deep for words.   That isn’t talking about speaking in tongues ladies and gentlemen.  That is a reference to groaning with us, weeping with us, suffering with us when words can’t describe what we’re feeling - the Holy Spirit feels and shares in our emotions with us.   And in verse 2, we see our response of gratitude, to respond to the church body by being united in spirit.

Now this phrase “united in spirit”  is made up of two words syn (together with) and psychos (soul, self, inner life, or the seat of the feelings, desires, affections). So the word refers to being 'united in spirit' or harmonious.  And a perfect illustration of that is that the church is  like members of a symphony orchestra.  We all play different instruments, but we are all tuned to the same key.  We all are following the same conductor.  We’re tuned to the same key:  the Word of God.  We are following the commands of the Maestro, our conductor Jesus Christ .

Fourthly, since you’re a believer, you know the compassion of Christ, the affections of Christ.  If you have a KJV Bible, you probably read it as “bowels and mercies”.  And if there was ever a good example of an old English rendering needing to be updated, this would be a good one.  I shudder to think what some people have done with that verse.  But bowels is the original meaning of the word.  In that day, the bowels, or the intestines and organs, were considered the seat or the origins of the emotions.  Today we might say, I love you with all my heart, and everyone knows that we’re not talking about our actual heart muscle, but our emotions, and will, and motives.  Back in Paul’s day, a young man might tell a young lady that he loved her with all of his bowel’s.  It meant the same thing as heart then, but unfortunately it doesn’t translate well in our culture.  Today if you said that your girlfriend would probably ask you if you needed a tissue.

So it means, compassion, affection.  But I think it goes even deeper than that, to our motives, our purposes.  We love them with a true love.  Sometimes we say, with every fiber of our being.  Maybe that’s it.  We’re not holding anything back.  We’re not being coy, or being facetious.  It’s a genuine, non-hypocritical love.  And that is what Paul says in verse 2 that our response should be as well.

Look at the last phrase of vs. 2, our response of gratitude should be “intent on one purpose.”  Intent on one purpose.  And what is that purpose?  Vs. 3; Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.”  This is genuine agape love.  This is the mark of a true Christian, a true follower of Christ.  Not just saying I love Jesus, but living out the love of Jesus to the church, to the other members of the local body of Christ.  

This is the second greatest commandment.  The first is love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul and mind.  The second is like it, love your neighbor as yourself.  Love your fellow church member the way you used to selfishly love yourself.  Let me tell you something folks, love, real agape love, real marriage love, real love for your children,  real love requires sacrifice.  It requires putting others ahead of yourself.  Putting others needs ahead of your own needs.  Love requires sacrifice.  But if you really love that person, you don’t mind that sacrifice so much do you?  You joyfully sacrifice for your kids because you love them.  A young man joyfully sacrifices and saves for his fiancé because he loves her.  A wife joyfully sacrifices and takes care of her husband or family because she loves them.  And in the church, we joyfully sacrifice for the needs of others because we love Christ.  And when we act out our love for Christ , then we find that we are acting in love for the church.

This week we celebrate Thanksgiving.  And as Christians we have a lot to be thankful for.  We are thankful for Christ’s encouragement, for Christ’s love, we are thankful for the fellowship of the Holy Spirit, we are thankful for Christ’s compassion and affections for us.  But how do we show that thankfulness?  By cooking a turkey and eating so much we just about pop?  By just giving thanks?

I believe Paul is saying here that an attitude of thankfulness should produce an attitude of gratitude.  And that gratitude results in a desire to be obedient to the One who sacrificed everything for us, that we might become the sons and daughters of God.  Our attitude should be like that of Christ Jesus, vs. 5, “Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, being made in the likeness of men.”

Jesus is our example.  He is our pattern.  And Jesus says to us, if any man wishes to follow Me, let him take up his cross.  The Christian life is not about self fulfillment or self gratification.  The Christian life is about self sacrifice.  But Paul says there is true joy in living a life of sacrifice.  Joy isn’t found in our circumstances, but in the inner peace and joy that God gives to those that love Him and are willing to give themselves up for Him. Phil. 2:17 “But even if I am being poured out as a drink offering upon the sacrifice and service of your faith, I rejoice and share my joy with you all. You too, I urge you, rejoice in the same way and share your joy with me.”